USE THE NEGATIVE ENERGY FOR A POSITIVE RESULT
Have you ever thought at one point in life why things are not going the way you expected or even why all that we get out of life is negativity, no matter how much we try; the realization that life is not a bed of roses is the first step to breaking through the hard things of life, because then you are aware of the things to expect from life; but living in a fantasy world is a continuous deception that many people have unconsciously ensnared themselves in. As humans, we need to realize that living in bitterness regardless of what we have been through would not help or make anything better, all it will do is make things worse and increase the negativity that we get out of life.
It is well established that the many different things that we have been through in life could have contributed to creating or improving this negative vibes, background and environment being a major contributor, people around us and many more but i can boldly say that instead of living in all this hate and negativity, it is important to consider the outcome of investing all that energy in negativity when they could have been invested in making life better and easier for us. I once heard a story of two brothers who grew up in an abusive house, their father would drink any time, any day and anywhere, and would come home to openly harass their mother; he was a perpetual drinker and risk many things through drinking. As young boys growing up, they constantly saw this and hated their father for all the embarrassment that it brought to the family. One of these brothers vowed never to taste alcohol at all in his life because he saw how the alcohol destroyed their father, he therefore invested all the energy in him into making a better life out of himself and became someone important in life. The second brother on the other hand for the fact of hating his father became even worse than his father was and wasted his life.
So what is that thing around you now that is making you feel that life is not worth living, or that you cannot make it, you cannot be better than who you are; why don't you shake them off and strive for the gold that you deserve. Invest all your energy on being a better you and leave all the negativity behind, that helps a huge deal. Life is not a bed of rose, if you want rose, work hard and buy yourself one; that is the kind of life we live in. So struggle to make it, use all the negative energy for a positive result; God be with you all. "There is no point being angry at a world that will not change for me, so why don't you work out the change you want and make yourself better" (Adeola Oladele)
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